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Sunday, April 10, 2011

My heart absolutely melted

So yesterday I asked my son to come upstairs and get schink schink (Princess Aurya's nick name) while I followed up with some clients.
It became awfully quiet downstair so I went to investigate. This is what I encountered...

Friday, April 8, 2011

People say you don't know what you've got until it's gone. Truth is, you knew exactly what you had; you just thought you'd never lose it.

Reposted from Alicia Ward Carpenter and Terryl Wood Collins
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My son just scared the mess out of me... (Not literally)

I went into Aurya's room to remove her from her swing and place her in her crib. So as I was placing her I saw her bottle and grabbed it and proceeded to walk out. I realized that the cap from her bottle was missing so I looked under her crib for it and who's under there Ste'Fon. I yelled out in excitement and startlement - "Ede ( he did not stir

I do recall seeing him go in there to calm Aurya down and help her go to sleep but didn't realize he was still in there. I was going to wake him up but figured it'd be more fun and interesting to take pics and post them.

I will never be able to recapture this unless he accidentally fall asleep under her crib again while trying to keep her company to help her go to sleep.

Btw I've been typing this for 10 minutes and he just woke up none the wiser that I'm posting this on my website.(giggling)

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Thursday, April 7, 2011

Fathers who do not give their daughters worth growing up - end up like the women is the video clip.

http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh872c7sOpc7P8OXh0

I listened to this whole entire segment and it literally PISSED me off and it is very difficult to upset me. (ask my friends closets to me)
WHAT THE Freakin MESS!!! This woman is upset b/c her husband is too nice, sincerely loves her, takes care of her and HER 4 children and cooks for her (and btw she is mad (as she smiles) because his cooking made her gain weight)!!! WHAT THE MESS!

IS THIS A JOKE!?!?! Yeah This is a joke right??? I know Ashton Kutcher is going to jump out any minute ... we're being Punk'd <looking around>

I don't dislike people but I literally really DISLIKE this WOMAN!!!! Bordering on hatred!
What a stupid stupid simple minded woman! 
I don't fight but I wanna kick her a*$

God says hate what He hates right!! I hate this woman's motives, agenda, scheme, framework and actions. 
Classic chickenheadedness <~~~Is that a word (Hmmph, now it is!)

OMG I am seriously MAD (beyond the point of being upset) and what makes it more tragic is that her husband misses her because his feelings were genuine. My heart is breaking for him.

But unfortunately there are so many many women out there that have this woman's same mindset. (Battered wives syndrome)She said that she felt he was too good to be true that a man/husband would/could never truly love her so she sabotaged her own relationship/marriage; because of her negative mental conditioning of always being mistreated. ONLY if a man mistreats her only then it means he loves her. (SMH) 

It all starts when we are babies - blank canvasses being sketched, erased and redrawn over and over again. Tha is why It is so imperative that fathers not only  love their daughters' but show them in both word AND deed. My Bishop (Dale C. Bronner) states fathers who do not give their daughters worth, grow up looking for a man to put a price on them.

Sad sad course of events. At some point and time women have to love themselves and let go of their past and baggage so God can give them better and we must accept that we DESERVE to be loved and cherished so our daughters can grow up to repeat and seek out healthy loving relationships and own their right to happiness.

One must love themselves in order to be loved and reciprocate it.

    Mmmmmy dinner tonight...

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    Fresh salad (consisting of endive lettuce, tomatoes, carrots, orange bell pepper, sweet mini peppers, mushrooms and celery) with 7 grain meatless crispy tenders lightly doused with roasted red pepper italian parmesan dressing & marinade.

    The beginning of february I participated in a Daniel fast (in conjunction with Sophia Angeli Nelson's iask, Inc. (I Am My Sister's Keeper)) and decided to keep the diet as my lifestyle.

    I've gained so much energy and clarity in my life and I've lost over 15lbs and still losing. I try to eat every 2.5 to 3 hours and I don't eat meat, (I do consume some fish), yeast bread, sweets, refined and processed foods, eggs or dairy. I cook with olive oil or coconut oil and eat ezekial bread (which is so much healthier than regular breads).

    I will start posting my favorite recipes and recommendations for a healthier you. If you are having weight issues try changing what you consume and how often you eat. Thanks to Lakeitha Anderson, I've learned there are SO many tasty and delicious options out there that are healthy and good for you.

    I will post before and after pictures soon. ... As a woman thinketh in her heart, so is she!
    Proverbs 23:7

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