Beware of wolves in sheeps clothing

It is just amazing to me how stupid we as humans can be sometimes. Wolves are “running game” on unsuspecting people who have no ulterior motives or ill intentions. They tell you their life story within the 1st week of meeting them so they appear genuine and sincere. But it is just all part of their "game".  From the jump, they never had any intentions on making you a permanent fixture in their lives - YOU are just “Someone to do” to help them pass their time until a new prey is spotted and being hunted. The wolf pretends to be lonely, misunderstand and misjudged - a strategy used by them  so the distracted person will lower their guard and that’s when they pounce on you. It’s mean, cruel, and they’re often unrepentant because they figure –eh you are just spoils of the hunt. (HMMPH!!)

I’ve heard many reiterate, including my Bishop, that when you meet someone, 9 times out of 10, you meet their representative. Waiting approximately 6 months guarantees the “real slim shady” will make his/her grand entrance. There are telltale signs everywhere! Often we get so preoccupied by sex or emotional hang ups (financial dependency, potential for greatness, having children together, or being strung along by broken promises) that we fail to see them or they’re often ignored. First of all, we’ve got to STOP being polite to spare the other persons feelings; it does NOTHING but causes resentment. For example, the wolf introduces you as their business partner or “friend”, never a girlfriend/boyfriend or significant other. They tell you that they are just in your life to prepare you for your wife or husband – you know “for a season”. They will manipulate you into doing things for them by making promises to you that never keep. They NEVER remember anything pertaining to you (your birthday, appointments) or have time for you. They are always concern about what others can do for them and not what they can do for others. They project they’re negative feelings onto you – “you need to learn how to be my friend” or “you had better watch what you say to me” or “you better be careful how you treat me” or “you have a familiar spirit” – using this in the wrong context to control you and keep you from getting too close to them or too involved in their personal life a (so you don’t talk to their family and friends – they don’t want to be exposed) or even worse treating you like a 3rd class citizen – emasculating or making gender biased remarks. Or acting like a complete baby when they don’t get their way or you don’t do what they want to do.

Only you have the power to control how you allow others to treat or speak to you. Love yourself enough to walk away. Don’t get sucked into a one sided relationship and lose your identity. Shake the dust from your feet and walk away.